Thursday, May 30, 2013

COLLUS' MASTER'S THESIS

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Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Collus’ Master’s Thesis



Cleaning out the basement is becoming a treasure hunt. Today, I found the original document that was my father Collus’ Master’s Thesis from the University of Tennessee in 1948. The title is “Burning Bush Community and School: A Partnership in Education” by Collus O. Johnson. I have seen it before, but I never read it all the way through; so, that’s what I did today.

In the 1940’s, before my father was a university educator, he worked for the Tennessee Valley Authority (TVA), a federal corporation that was designed to help people after the Depression in the South to improve their communities’ economic growth. In addition, the farmers at that time particularly needed help to farm the lands in a way that would be healthier for the earth and for the people who bought and ate what was grown. My dad, who was raised in a farming family, was one of the TVA staff who was given the task of facilitating the collaboration of all the personnel resources that were available to the farmers and encourage everybody to work together so that their communities would flourish. Those resources included the teachers in the schools, students and parents, the ministers in the church, the rest of the community who lived in the area, the federal agricultural agents who had impressive knowledge that they shared with the farmers whenever they were needed and asked, and even the local telephone company and utilities companies.

The document that I read today could have come right out of a Slow Food history book. It was all about sustaining the earth and training people to make good dietary selections in growing their crops and serving their meals. In this document, my father reported about research in one small community in northern Georgia called Burning Bush. The community had problems, and they wanted help. They wanted to be taught what they needed to know to solve their problems. So, the approach was individualized: the farmers, students and others in the community worked together to form a list of specific skills and information that they needed. Even in the schools, the children and adults were taught according to their expressed needs. Of course, the teachers made sure that the state standards were incorporated for the children, but the old curriculum was used only as a resource. Dad’s help in facilitating the collaboration of all the available resources toward that focus  lead this small community to be able to problem solve in any situation.

The results of his year-long research were impressive…the community was well on its way in the process of taking charge of their community and making it flourish.

I finished the book, once again proud that my dad had been able to help this change happen in that small community and others throughout Tennessee. It also reminded me of the importance of lifelong learning that my father and mother preached and modeled. My father was 55 when he returned to the university to take his doctoral course, the same age that I was many years later when I received my Doctorate. He was a great example in every way! I treasured being “Daddy’s little girl!”

Thanks, Dad,

Colleen

Tuesday, May 28, 2013

DUNGEON/ASHLEY'S BDAY/HAIR CUT BY PEDRO/MAN MUG!

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Tuesday, May 28, 2013


Peter is having extra special fun going through our basement boxes. He just returned there, muttering to himself, "Into the dungeon I go!!" Isn't he cute!!!? He's on his 5th large plastic container of documents to shred, and I’m on my 12th trip to the donation center at MUST Ministries!

Today is our niece Ashley’s birthday. Always before, I have wondered if I got her birthday correct. For some reason, this year, I actually checked the calendar. As my mother used to say, “I must be getting brighter every year!”

I found a new hairdresser today. Pedro is from Venezuela, and speaks beautiful English with a lovely Spanish accent. He is VERY close to my house, and I really liked the way he cut my hair. Do you agree?

Some of you have never seen the precious mug that Arne gave Peter. It has a smiling, hooded face of 1½-year-old Hugo on one side and a sweet and curious expression on 2¾-year-old Harldur’s face on the opposite side. Peter is so proud of it. He has just told me not to bother putting it in the cabinet, just leave it out for him to use his “man mug” for tea later in the day. Thank you, Arne, you really chose the perfect Nonno gift for Peter!

Ciao, Ciao!

Colleen


Sunday, May 26, 2013

AN ITALIAN MOMENT!

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Sunday, May 26, 2013


MY ITALIAN MOMENT

At our church today, I had an Italian moment! Near the end of the service each week, the minister in our church routinely calls to the front for a blessing anyone in the congregation who has a birthday or anniversary. He makes that announcement and gives the blessing, and everyone claps for them. Well, today was the day that our friend Karen went to the front for her birthday blessing. In the middle of this part of the service, I heard behind me a little Hugo-type-one-year-old voice say, “Nonna! Nonna!” That is my grandmother name, and I almost jumped up and went back there! He got louder and louder, and his mother could not make him stop. Finally, his mom took him out in the aisle where he had a straight shot to run to his Nonna Karen. She grabbed him up in her arms, and he stayed with her during the rest of the blessings…quiet and satisfied with his nonna. The service never slowed down. It is commonplace there to let the children be a part of the service!! Everyone smiled!

MEMORIAL DAY!

Tomorrow, in the U.S., is a special patriotic day to honor the men and women who have died while serving in the armed services. The last Monday in May each year is a federal holiday called Memorial Day, and it is also considered the beginning of the summer holidays in most schools. Guess who has spent the weekend at the pool? The students in our neighborhood look forward to this weekend, when school is out and the pool opens in our neighborhood. PPPPAAAARRRTTTYYY!

PICS OF KID’S FUN


I’m sending on to you pictures I have received from some others (thanks, Arne and Peter) of our grandchildren enjoying a camping trip and Monica with us at Serenbe. I hope you will enjoy them.

Ciao! Ciao!

Colleen

Wednesday, May 22, 2013

CELEBRATING OUR 7TH ANNIVERSARY IN DECATUR

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Tuesday, May 21, 2013

CELEBRATING OUR 7TH ANNIVERSARY IN DECATUR


Why not? We couldn’t think of any place we’d rather celebrate our 7th anniversary than Decatur, and Peter the Research King found the perfect restaurant!

We couldn’t go to Decatur without calling Brandi, and she met us at Dancing Goats café for a short visit before we went on to our celebratory lunch! Brandi was interested in our choice to move to Decatur, and she wondered if we were thinking that we would meet lots of people there that would like to go on our tours to Italy. Honestly, we hadn’t thought of that angle, but it does make sense. Thanks for the suggestion, Brandi. If it works out that way, it certainly will be fine with us!

Brandi caught us up on her family. The girls’ school was moving to a new location next year, and they were thinking of options they might have. It seems that 80% of her residency will be done at Grady Hospital right downtown Atlanta…not that far away, but definitely a challenging drive in bad traffic. In addition, Richie has started a new business of his own building BOX HOUSES. I think we will hear more and more about that. He plans to build very small houses that can be put up easily on vacation lots, etc. Good luck, Richie. I can see that kind of company doing very well around here, with mountains, lakes and seaside close by.

We didn’t invite Brandi to join us for our anniversary lunch, and she understood that. After she left us, we went to 2-4-6, a short walking distance in Decatur…of course, everything is a short walking distance in Decatur!! That’s part of the reason we like it so well. Peter and I enjoyed our meal very much, and we will definitely go back again. I particularly liked that they would serve half servings of most plates, so I got half of a scrumptious salad to go with half of a pasta dish. Peter did the same with half of a pasta dish, half of a sausage balls dish and half of a salad. It was plenty of food, and very good!

We had such a lovely day, and look forward to many more years enjoying Decatur together.

I love you, Peter,

Colleen

Sunday, May 19, 2013

DON RUBIN'S INTRODUCTION TO DECATUR/HANS' BIRTHDAY

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Saturday, May 18, 2013



WELCOME TO DECATUR!

We had a good feeling about Decatur, a small town east of Atlanta, even before we went there today. Cati went to college at Agnes Scott College there, and we visited her often while she was there. Even after Cati graduated, we had opportunities to visit Decatur. It was the closest town to Kyle’s Emory University, and our friend Monica looked at Agnes Scott when she was trying to decide which college to attend. Monica and I had lunch in Decatur one day and toured around the Agnes Scott campus. We knew a little about Decatur, and we liked what we knew.  There’s a very strong food scene there, with Farmers’ Markets every Wednesday and Saturday mornings. Many of the shops are either selling artisan food or are attached to restaurants that only use organic produce and meats. Also, it’s small enough to walk everywhere you need to go and very friendly, with people out walking around every evening and all weekends. The website for Decatur described it just as I would describe Bra, Italy, where we spent the last year. That was surely in its favor!

Fortunately, Cati’s dissertation professor Dr. Don Rubin has lived in Decatur for the last 20 years with his wife Carol, and we invited him to join us for coffee today. He suggested The Bakery Café…just next door to the famous Cakes and Ale Restaurant. Peter knew where it was immediately.

Don was happy for us to pick his brain about Decatur. We learned that there is a strategic plan for the town that is being closely monitored by the City Council and Mayor. Everyone in the town is encouraged to give input any time something new is put into that plan. Plus, there are interesting festivals throughout the year…art, books, and all sorts of food and entertainment are just a few. By the end of our visit Peter had made up his mind: we will move to Decatur, where we will feel more at home than we do now living in a beautiful suburban neighborhood. DONE!

I’m sure you will hear more about that move as our plans progress. Thank you, Don, for a job well done!!! Here we come, Decatur!

HAPPY BIRTHDAY, HANS!

In the evening, we met Karen and Hans at Jennifer and Fred’s house for a quick aperitvo before going to dinner at the wonderful Italian restaurant Taverna Fiorentina. Hans’ birthday was Thursday, so he had no idea that Jennifer had a cake waiting for him back at their house and that I had brought him my famous singing card that screams “WOW! I FEEL GOOD!” when you open the card! Later, Peter showed his 10-minute slide show and told some of the great stories about our year in Italy.

We treasure our time with all of you! Thanks for a bellissimo evening!

Colleen

Friday, May 17, 2013

VICTORIA'S IRRESISTIBLE INVITATION!

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Thursday, May 16, 2013

VICTORIA’S IRRESISTIBLE INVITATION!


We’re thinking we should send Kyle away on a business trip more often. Yesterday, we got an irresistible invitation from our sweet daughter-in-law Victoria to come and have supper with her. We called it Thursday Supper!!! AND, she INSISTED that we bring the things that Kyle has been storing in our basement (the place in our house that we are trying to empty) , as well as 2 rocking chairs and a big red wagon that’s in desperate need of paint or at least cleaning.

Peter and I worked really hard to get 4+ boxes of Kyle’s childhood memories and other items into the car, then we remembered that one of the rocking chairs actually folds up. By putting that one against the backseat and turning the other one face down, we were only lacking the red wagon. We had to save that for a future trip…maybe the one where they come with a truck to get the wine refrigerator!!! Yes, we are VERY serious about emptying our basement!

Victoria asked Peter all about the things she found in Kyle’s boxes…theater awards, scholastic awards, and all sorts of toys and books. She had a good time learning about Kyle’s youth from the great stories Peter could tell her. I know Kyle will appreciate knowing how much fun they had!

The animals at their house were fun to be around…except during supper, when Victoria banished them to a closed off room. Victoria explained the cats go straight for the food if she leaves them out during a meal. We could hear them even then, so I’m sure they could hear us, too. The cats Frank and Claire (I told her that I went to high school with some people named Frank and Claire who dated for years and got married!) were very entertaining when Victoria brought out their food. One of them ran straight to Victoria, smacked one of the bowls with it’s paw, then jumped up on an empty countertop. Victoria had her orders to give that bowl to that cat. The other cat stayed on the ground and was happy with her (his?) bowl there. Next time, I will learn who was who. The dog Walker is such a happy puppy and loves being in charge of those cats!

I had gone to Storico Fresco Pasta this morning to get Peter some beautiful tagliatelle and ragu for our supper, and Victoria added a most wonderfully unusual salad of greens, black olives and red peppers.  It was a perfect dinner, and we celebrated afterwards by taking Walker for a walk around the neighborhood.

By the way, Harldur, you will be glad to know that Victoria LOVES that you insisted on calling her “Beautiful Victoria!” She felt very honored!
Grazie mille, Victoria for your irresistible invitation!

Colleen

Thursday, May 16, 2013

Tom & Beth AND SNOWBALL!

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Wednesday, May 15, 2013

Tom and Beth…and SNOWBALL!



This morning, we struck off for nearby Douglasville to meet my brother Tom and his wife Beth for lunch. We hadn’t seen them since we returned from Italy, and it was really good to get together again. Tom and his son Micah have been taking advantage of running events, and Tom seemed really proud of them for getting in good shape for that. Beth is still working hard on her painting interest. They are doing well. We hope to see you again soon, Beth and Tom!

I was SHOCKED when I returned home to find that a dog and his owner were walking past our house.  The dog was a beautiful white Spitz EXACTLY like the dog we had as children, which we called Snowball (for obvious reasons). I knew my brothers Tom and Gene would particularly like to see this picture!

I hope everyone has a super rest of the week!

Colleen

Tuesday, May 14, 2013

HAPPY BDAY, ARNE! / Tractor Day

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Monday, May 13, 2013

Happy Birthday, Arne!

I’m glad Arne had a happy week of celebrating his birthday. It’s always best to spread out the fun, don’t you think?

I’m sorry we missed you on Skype today, Arne, but we loved Cati’s story about Harldur and Hugo during your camping weekend. It seems that y’all had gotten a bull piñata for the children to open and find fun toys, but being the gentle hearted one-and-a-half -year-old that Hugo is, when the kids took a break from their whacking at the bull, Cati saw that Hugo was running around in circles frantically saying, “Hu! Hu!” over and over. She soon realized that he was worried that the bull was getting HURT! When Harldur understood his little brother’s distress, he went directly to the bull and started hugging him. Of course, Hugo was relieved at this change of attitude towards the bull and also started caressing it. After quite some time of reassuring Hugo…and the bull…that there would be no more whacking, the bull decided to give the children the toys. All was well! How’s that for a lesson in kindness!?

TRACTOR DAY!


Here are some great tractor pictures especially for our kind little grandsons. What a cool way to plant our new internet wire,  and it was right in our front yard.

Have a great week,

Nonna

Monday, May 13, 2013

MOTHER'S DAY DELIGHT!

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Sunday, May 12, 2013

MOTHER’S DAY DELIGHT!



A beautiful, sunny day is a splendid way to start a Mother’s Day!

Today was a cool day, in so many ways! The weather was perfect for my sear sucker suit…a little cool, but just right. Everything we did was way cool…interesting, fun, and perfect!

We went to the late church service, which meant we saw a lot of people there whom we had not seen since we returned from Italy. That was very nice. Also, the speaker was a young lady from the church who wanted to let the congregation know how inspirational and helpful they had been to her while she was in high school. She’s proud to say that she is now in her first year at Berry College, where Nick went his first year of college. She received a well-deserved standing ovation.

Peter and I enjoyed a long walk in the Kennesaw Mtn. Park in the afternoon and enjoyed getting out and moving in the fresh air and sunshine. We solve most of the world’s problems on hikes and on long drives in the car, and I like that.

Dinner at H. Harper Station with Jill, Amanda, Victoria, Nick, Kyle and Peter was a special Mother’s Day treat. My bellini was exceptional, and Peter said he would go back for the good drinks, too. It was great to be with all of our Atlanta children and wives and girlfriends, and I just loved the unusually incredible vase as a reminder of this day.  Victoria’s grandparents had made it, and that made it even more special. Thanks to all of you for helping me remember how much fun it is to be your mom!

Vi amo tutti!

Mom

Sunday, May 12, 2013

BRANDI'S GRADUATION PARTY!

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Saturday, May 11, 2013

BRANDI’S GRADUATION PARTY


It was worth the 45-mile trip to Decatur to attend Brandi’s Graduation party! She has finished her course work for her MD from Emory University now, and she was offered a residency at the Emory University Hospital. She is specializing in emergency care, so I hope she gets to spend her residency in the emergency room there. Her husband Richie and two daughters Vivian and Mazie are thrilled that they don’t need to move away from their home, friends and school for now. We are, too!

We knew a few of the people at her party (70 were invited). Brandi’s mom Katie and her husband Pete were there.  Peter and I had fun in the kitchen with Katie trying to keep the cake and chili from burning, and Peter and Pete had great conversations, too. Also, my Cati’s college roommate Hannah and her family were there. Guy is such a little cutie, and she’s pregnant now with another little boy. We did meet so many lovely friends of Brandi and Richie, and it felt a lot like one of our Sunday Suppers in Bra, Italy - very informal and welcoming. We even had an invitation to come to dinner at Lisa and Dave’s house with the Gunns in the near future. We’re looking forward to that.

 There was plenty of good food, and the children especially enjoyed that the desserts were out on the table from the very beginning. As you can imagine, most of them were gone before the chili was even served! Everything was delicious.

The Gunn’s apartment was not large enough for 70 people to be in it, and the party was designed for the children to play outside. That worked fine until the rain started…well, actually, it worked fine while it rained, too. I wished for a picture of Vivian, who was outside when she was told that it was raining, and she just shook her head with a BIG smile and raised her hands high to take in the rain! The adults moved in and out at will. The drinks were kept on the front lawn, so it was easy to keep the group spread out.

Thank you, Brandi and Richie, we certainly did enjoy celebrating with you and so many of your wonderful friends. We’re excited about getting together with you again soon at Dave and Lisa’s house!

Ciao, ciao!
Colleen

P.S. Cati, Brandi wanted you to notice her GORGEOUS “new” blouse from her favorite consignment shop! As you can tell, it look fabulous on her!

Saturday, May 11, 2013

MJ1 at Cafe Jonah/Gina & Will Planning a Trip to Italy


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Friday, May 10, 2013

MJ1 at Café Jonah

Café Jonah has become one of our very favorite places to go for breakfast or lunch, so when Jason suggested that our Marriage Journey group meet there for brunch today, we thought that was a grand idea. The food is natural and fantastic, and the added benefit is that Chef Sue is Jason’s wife, so a member of our MJ1 group…even more splendid! Ten of the 12 in our group were available to meet, and it was a fabulous reunion. We spent our usual time catching up on what has been happening in everyone’s lives this year. We did Skype with the group in the fall, but it was precious for us to get to have this face-to-face event together. Thanks to all of you for an extra special time with extra special people sharing extra special food in an extra special place! J

Gina and Will at Our House

Our big job at dinner tonight with Gina and Will at our house was to help them think through their next visit to Italy. They really are eager to meet with our Italian immobiliare and friend Luca to search for a house to buy. They are also interested in having access to the Giro – the huge bike race all over Italy. The limiting factor for them is that they want to spend only 3 days on this wonderful adventure! It pays to have Delta Air Lines benefits, right? We shared yet another great meal with Gina’s scrumptious spinach cheese spread (Enzo, it reminded me so much of “my” cheese spread that you make! YUM!) with olive bread for appetizer, pastas of beet with ricotta and a sturdy one with rye flour with stinging nettle and poppy seed, a salad, then strawberries with balsamic on top for dessert! Oh my! Gina and Will looked with Peter at the maps of Italy, He gave them sage advice about where NOT to stay and helped them think through their priorities and the time they planned to have. I don’t know what they will end up doing, but it was fun to dream with them about their possibilities.

By the way, Will, Happy Birthday a month ago! Sorry we missed it then, but we hope you'll enjoy your pasta scooper and Italian book now!!!

We’ll see you in June, Will and Gina, at your house when your parents come for a visit! We can hardly wait!

Colleen

Friday, May 10, 2013

DINNER AT TSUNAMI/VALERIE'S A GRADUATE!


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Thursday, May 9, 2013

MAGIC SPIKEY SHOES

I just had to get our grandsons on Skype as quickly as possible when I saw the man up in our next door neighbor’s tree, getting ready to cut it down! They were enthralled!

I explained that the man’s shoes had magic spikes that let him walk up the side of the tree by pushing the spikes into the tree. They were curious and eager to try it out!

When the first limbs dropped to the ground there was a loud THUD! Both of the boys jumped back from the computer screen and gasped but immediately came back, pleading, “We want to see it again!”

Then, the workers took a break, and the one up the tree climbed back down using his “magic spikey shoes!” I told the workmen that they could get rich charging admission for such great babysitting entertainment!

SHOPPING FOR A BABY GIFT

I can hardly wait for Don and Carla to see the baby gift I found for them. I sure hope their little boy enjoys his in September as much as Hugo enjoys the one we gave him!!! No other hints…it’ll be a surprise!

TSUNAMI

Brenda, Heidi and I met at Marietta Square to have dinner at Taqueria Tsunami. I was surprised to find out that it had Latin/Asian food but very pleased with my dinner salad with corn, peppers, all sorts of greens and other goodies with a soy vinaigrette dressing. Of course, we always enjoy our time together, and this event was extra special.

Thanks, ladies! I’m looking forward to our jaunt to Gibbs Garden in June!

Sorry, no pictures. I got all wrapped up in my interesting day and totally forgot my new camera. I PROMISE to do better!

Congratulations, Niece Valerie, on your high school graduation! Enjoy your new camera!!!

Colleen

Wednesday, May 8, 2013

A DAY WITH NAVIA AND NICK


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Sunday-Wed., May 5-8, 2013

 Happy Cinco di Mayo!

I finished my application to receive Social Security benefits. For those of you who don’t live in the US, I have paid into the U.S. Social Security fund my whole life, and now I have retired and have enough credits to start receiving benefits from them. I will receive a check monthly until my death. It’s about half of the amount of my retirement benefits from working in the schools, so I’m very pleased and am feeling quite wealthy!!! If you knew the real amounts, you would laugh heartily at that comment!!! Every little bit helps, though.

We’re going to open a swimming pool in our house if we get any more rain in our basement! This rain is relentless, and has been a challenge for 4 days. We missed church, a Cinco de Mayo lunch with Tom and Beth, a visit to Montara Falls Retreat in North Georgia, and a visit to our favorite Storico Fresco Pasta Shop because we had to change the towels and shop vac every 2 or so hours. At it’s worst, I was drying 12 loads of towels in one day! Today (Wednesday), we have finally seen the sun, and our basement is dry again. It was good impetus to get rid of things in the basement, so we’re taking a load to donate at MUST ministries every few days. Something good can come out of every bad situation, right?

A DAY WITH NAVIA AND NICK


I couldn’t have had a better time than I had today playing with Navia and Nick! Nick is on his break from his Physical Therapy Doctorate at Georgia State University, and Navia is on permanent break. She’s the cute-as-a-button Pointer puppy dog!

Nick and I took Nadia for a walk in Grant Park, only to have Nick chase her all around, trying to convince her to stay with us. We ended up at an outdoor table eating pizza before we went to a dog supply store for a new pinch collar that the dog trainer recommended for Navia. She’s a very smart little 8 month-old, and she immediately knew who was boss!

Thanks, Nick and Navia, for a wonderful visit! Let’s do it again soon!

Love, Mom (Nonna to you, Navia!)

Saturday, May 4, 2013

JIM & JOAN'S PICTURE SWAP


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Friday, May 3, 2013

Jim and Joan’s Picture Swap

I bet you heard us honoring you last night, Enzo and Lisa!! We went to Joan and Jim’s house for Peter’s wonderful appetizers; Joan’s mushroom, leak and onion risotto and super salad; and Jim’s great grilled lamb, with tiramisu for dessert! Yes, we did add prosecco belini and a red wine along the way. No, we did not starve of hunger from not having enough good food!!! And, we talked about the two of you the whole night, Lisa and Enzo.

Jim had some fantastic pictures of their visit with us in December/January, and we shared Peter’s pictures of our year there, too. We particularly liked remembering all the time we spent with all of us together, especially that splendid New Year’s Eve meal at Lisa and Enzo’s. Needless to say, it was a delightful evening. Their question was, “When are they coming here to see us?”

I got the mail when I returned home, only to find my new camera there. I could have taken pictures tonight! Shucks! It pays to check the mailbox!! I’ll be ready from now on, though.

We have several days of rain to look forward to here. It will be the definitive test for our newly French drained basement! I’m holding my breath that it is shored up now.

Greetings to all,

Colleen